good with the bad

so the bad thing about protecting urself from getting hurt is that when u turn off those emotions of being vulnerable and scared u also turn off any other emotion u can possibly have. u c there is only 1 main breaker 2 ur emotions - they r either all on or all off - u dont get 2 choose which emotion stays on or gets shut off - so the only true choice u have in the matter is 2 keep feeling or not